sillybutbrilliantmind asked: Hi. I'm with this soldier for about 5 months now. And he's not on the base all the time for the first 3 months so i got to talk to him most of the time, on chat, thats where we meet anyway. and now, he's on the base, and he didnt get to get home till now. but we use to talk like 2-3 hours a day before but now, everything changes when his shift changes, and its all new to me.
he's going through something right now but he doesn't want to tell it to me, but i guess it have something to do with the work and he thinks i'll leave him. and it feels like he's pushing me away, but yet he can't let me go. should i go on with this? I really don't know what to do. I wanna understand him, but he's not letting me do it.
Hey there :)
Is he in Basic or AIT or he’s done with those?
Well in my opinion he’s still adjusting to the situation or due to OPSEC he can’t tell you some things. Also you know how men are not as expressive like us right? Maybe he doesn’t know how to tell you, if anything.
It takes a lot to be in a relationship with a military guy. You have to be very open for a lot of things, flexible for the changes and be understanding and supportive as you can ever be.
Patience. Your guy will confide with you as soon as he’s comfortable to tell you. If not, just understand him in that light. And don’t let it get between you two. As long as you love each other, keep fighting sis. :)